Prevention is Better than Cure

I start my article by saying that rapists definitely deserve capital punishment and they should be hung. This article is purely about how our people react in emotions.

Hanging rapists is not a big deal. Let us assume that "Our leaders will pass the bill and bring it into action". Do you believe that it will stop the crime being committed? Everyone knows a murder leads to hanging in our constitution but has that stopped the crime? We are seeing murders committed every day. There are bad elements everywhere. Some of us get emotional when someone seems to question your rights. In our young age, we are not given full freedom by our parents. And most of us hated that and we thought that they are completely dominating us. How many of us would have thought that they are doing that only for our good? 

When we hang an accused it will definitely console the victim I accept. As I have already done an article about the capital punishment of our country let us see what happens. A person who has killed almost a hundred people including our nation’s guests was hung after 4 years. And in another case, a bus burning case, in which 3 girls burnt alive to death what happened? After identifying the criminals, they have still not been punished to date and it has already been more than 12 years. 

My point is so simple, Going out un-time is really not safe in our country be it a girl or a boy. Now don’t get tensed just read on. Not everyone is raised in a proper manner as you and I are in this country. There are some jerks too. Why do we just get into risk and then suffer. I might sound rude like some of the politicians do in this point. But if u analyse for a while without getting tensed, this might not be that hurting, I would definitely not advice my loved one to take such a risk. Yes they are jerks! Stupid morons! These black dots are created from the birth. They have just not been properly raised by their parents. If they have been properly raised, they would not do these things. But why do you want to risk your life, my dear sister. Yes he will be hung! But what about you?  Will you get your life back? Please think over. 

If u think I am wrong, just think if your parents would say something different from this. Now if u still think I am a sadist, or something worse, go on. But this is what I feel. If that means I am a jerk, I don’t care. 

Love Failures - Before and After Marriage

I recently had a chat with one of my good friend who recently got married to her boyfriend after facing a heavy challenge from her family. But now she is NOT happy!!! I was completely taken back.  It was just 3-4 months back that she had opposed her parents for him and now she is not happy with him. How can this happen? I seriously wanted to analyse this particular issue. And this is what I was able to conclude upon.

                Marriage is generally considered as the bonding between two individuals. When we come to Love marriage, I was able to categorize it into two different types.

1.       A boy or girl gets attracted towards the other and tries all possible things in the world to impress the person and eventually succeeds

2.       A long standing friendly relationship between a boy and girl turn to be Love.

Both the above situations leads to LOVE MARRIAGE provided they cross one barrier! They achieve in getting or neglecting the acceptance from their family.

We shall analyse both the types in detail.

Scenario before marriage

In the first case, you show the sincerity of your love and how much you care for the other person and somehow gain a place in their heart. Let us see how strong this love can be before marriage. The Girl/Boy (We will have this as boy here on for convenience sake) gets attracted to a girl and he proposes to the girl. They have not got used to each other for the girl to accept. Any normal homosapien will not accept such a proposal immediately be it a girl or a boy. Later when the boy gives some pressure, the girl tries to make him understand with her family situations and other things which may make their marriage impossible. In few cases, the boy succeeds in winning over the heart of the girl by doing and saying everything she likes. And one fine day when the girl accepts him, she does so only when she feels that the boy is much more important than her family. In this situation, the girl will do anything to get married to the boy doesn’t matter how hard the situation gets. That might be reaching extremes to get the family’s approval or going against them to join hands with a person whom she believes will take care of her more than her family. Next case is friends becoming lovers.  They both know each other very much and hence the understanding will be good in between the two. It has already been a long standing friendship which has just taken a new name as Love. All izz well between the two, but when it comes between the family and this friend, it will definitely be the family which will come as priority over the friend. So we cannot expect one to give up family for this friend. May be the severity of the struggle for the success of Love differ by how huge the impact of the love of the friend and the family. But majority of this Love is the one which will face a very tough challenge to reach the next step, The Marriage.

Scenario after marriage:

                If this is the case before marriage, let us now see how things change after marriage. First we will take the later scenario where friends turn lovers. They behave in a friendly manner since the beginning when they were friends and after that when they were lovers and obviously that will continue the same relationship will continue. They will have the same care towards each other hence the chances of misunderstanding is very less between the two and hence the chances for a very long happy married life is very high. But this will not be the case in the other scenario. The boy changes himself so as to please the girl and wins over her heart. After marriage, this attitude of the boy will definitely change and he will behave normally since he has achieved what he wanted. But the girl will expect him to behave the same way how he had behaved when they were in love. Misunderstanding starts there and this takes the juice out of the fruit called married life making both of them unhappy.

Arranged marriage:

                This is one similar to the second scenario except for the fact that two unknown people are meeting and they are becoming friends. They are becoming friends and this friendship grows and also they will be having family’s support in this kind of marriage which is an additional boost. But the point in this one is you cannot become a friend to a person who completely doesn’t deserve to be one. This is one case where arranged marriage might fail. So, obviously Love marriage has more problems compared to the arranged marriage. But the problems in the marriage can be sorted out easily if the understanding level between the two increases where as in arranged marriage it is very difficult to clear the problem.

All possibilities does have some exceptions, everything I have written here are according to the majority of the cases that I saw and as heard from few close friends. This is not a conclusion. It is just an analysis from my point of view. I personally wish there should not be any Love Failures before or after marriage. I do thank all my friends who have given their thoughts about this whenever I have asked them. Thanks to you too for reading this patiently and waiting for your most valuable feedback…

Yours,

Raja Sekaran.R

Analysis Of A Situation - Death Sentence

Situation:

1.  Some organisation did a crime more than 20 yrs ago.

2.  A Special court has been assigned to enquire the crime and punish the guilty.

3.  Special court did the investigation and gave the punishment to many belonging to the organisation that committed the crime which includes 26 death sentences.

4.  All the Twenty-Six appealed to the Supreme Court and the Supreme Court reduced the number to four.

5.  These four gave a mercy plea request to the Governor in 1999 and the Governor rejected the plea within 10 days.

6.  After the Governor’s rejection, they sent the request to The President.

7.  One among the four sentenced is a lady and she has been given mercy with her death sentence turned to life-imprisonment. It is said that this mercy was given after the recommendation of the wife of the person assassinated as part of the crime.

8.  After 11 years one fine day, the mercy pleas of the remaining three have been rejected by the president. And the three have to be hung in 10 days.

ANALYSIS

1.       The Crime:

Crime is an assassination of a Prime-Minister of world’s largest democracy (by population) and hundreds of other people. #TERRORIST ATTACK. This incident has definitely affected hearts of most of the people in the nation. Majority of the people in the nation wished this particular person will help them lead a good life and they elected him as the PM. All those dreams have been shattered by this bomb blast.

2.       THE SPECIAL COURT:

I’d rather say it as the so-called special court. A court has been solely arranged to investigate this particular case. They did investigate and finally gave judgement which sentenced 26 people to be hung. #DEATH SENTENCE. They will be hung to death. If 26 people are given death sentence how deeply and how carefully they would have investigated the case!!?? Moreover the court which investigated the case is a special court. That is the reason because of which the judgement cannot be reviewed by the High-Court (This rule is assuming that the judgement by the special court will be perfect without flaws). But the judgement can be challenged in the Supreme Court. (Probably they would have assumed that the judgement cannot be 100% flawless). The SC investigated the case and reduced the number of 26 death sentences to 4!!! (This proves the judgement of the special court only 15.38% correct). Death sentence is something which is going to kill the person. How can a special court be so very careless in giving death? This means that 22 people would have been killed unnecessarily. How fair is that!!??

With all due respect to the honourable Supreme Court and it’s decision, what is the proof that this decision could be fool-proof? May be if there is another higher level of authority of judgement, it is still possible that this 4 could have been reduced to 2 or 1.

[Disclaimer: I am not sure if this is contempt of court. If so someone pls advice, I will remove the unnecessary points]

3.       MERCY APPEAL IN GENERAL:

Why does this particular step exist even after Supreme Court’s decision? It is said that President is the first citizen of the nation. So doesn’t the contempt of court law apply to The President? If so many courts have analysed the case and has given the judgement as death, they have done something so bad that they deserve to be killed. Then I don’t know what is there in considering their mercy? OK! Let it be like they have realized their mistake and are asking for mercy. In that case, Mercy has to be given to all the persons who have asked for it. But NO is the answer for this. Why partiality of the giving mercy?

4.       MERCY APPEAL IN THIS PARTICULAR SITUATION:

Eleven years! Three different persons in the chair! One pending job! Five Reminders! NIL answers! With due respect to Dr.Abdul Kalam, He has served 5 full years has the President and this file would have been lying in his desk for all the five years. He is undoubtedly one of the best and the most deserving person to be in that chair. How can even he not understand that this was also one of his duties? All three responsible should give proper explanation for what has caused this huge delay in rejecting these three pleas.

CONCLUSION:

                These 3 people have been waiting in the jail to be hung for 21 years! All three have been proved to be having involved in the assassination of one great leader and numerous other innocent people.  Then according to me they should have been hung right away. Now after 21 years, hanging them doesn’t make any sense and as the situation is in this part of the country, they would only be considered as heroes if they are hung now. Apart from them becoming heroes, few others would be benefited, the political parties trying to make use of the situation maximum to their benefit and some individuals who love to get into controversies.

Thanks a lot for reading. Waiting for your feedback.

Yours,

Raja Sekaran.R

       

Happy Birthday UsefuLLshare!!

I was just going thru a good blog which one of my friend suggested.. It was really a nice one.. had a lot of info to gain. as i was browsing thru the topics in that. i found that the blogger has started blogging since 2005 august. So he has completed five years of blogging. I just came back to my blog, how old am i really in this world.. a small surprise.. even i have started blogging on the August.. but just 4 years after his..!! So, this is my first anniversary. Have not done much but there is something to celebrate. At this point of time, I really like to thank all the readers of my blog. If i find something interesting anywhere, I always liked to share it with others. and this is one year of sharing going on.. some would have found this blog boring, some would have found it interesting or for someone, it might be just a time pass. but for me, it has always been a proud property in the web space. I also thank all the readers and followers and most importantly those who isnpired me to be a blogger, fellow bloggers.

And also many people have given their advices and opinions about this blog. I have never ignored anything. if it is possible, i ve always followed it. I always wanted to write a lot over here! But it hardly happened. Many say that i am a very lazy fellow. but according to me, I am the laziest person. But my craze for this blog has always tried to kill that laziness in me and has also succeeded quite a few times. I have heard that always the most precious gifts are always free.. as the quote says, I should also thank Blogger for giving me this space for me. And also most of this writing has been the result of my loneliness which I started to like. And in Times of India, this monday, I read an article about what all is good to do in every day of a week. and I saw that it is very good to post something in your blog on thursday as I did today. I also thank my generous office for letting me free enough to post this and also for not blocking blogger. Will be back soon for you readers.. and I d like to say a few words in my mother tongue which i will hereafter say in my every success, 'எல்லா புகழும் இறைவனுக்கே'..
A big thanks again..

Yours,
Raja.

Warm Birthday Wishes!

            Whenever any of my friends ask me, whose fan are u? I proudly replied Vijay a couple of years back. That was not very bad situation then. But now if I say so, I will get a bad reaction from that side. After continuous flops, he has invited a lot of criticisms. First and foremost is that he is not changing his acting style and not taking challenging roles. He did change the style. In Sachin, He came as a college student with a fully love based story line. It was really good movie. Who accepted? And leave that. In ghilli, Thirumalai, Pokkiri, Thirupaatchi… He did the same care-free play-boy type roles. But those were really good hits.

            And next one is , He is copying from other industries. Accepted! But what is the problem? He is doing that correctly. Pokkiri is an exact Xerox copy of a Telugu movie. Each and every frame has been copied. But that finally turned out to be a blockbuster. And there are actors who could not even do these correctly.

            Vijay has failed for sure in the recent times. He has failed in selecting the correct scripts. For that we should not hate the person. Everyone fails at one point or the other. Vijay himself has said in Thirumalai, ‘ Life is just like a Circle, Those who win today has to lose one day and those who lose today will win one day.’

            I would also like to comment over the theatre owners’ reaction after these flops. Since Vijay has been giving continuous flops, they are demanding him to pay them back for the losses created. They should remember that they are just doing business and they have to accept both profits and losses. This is like a farmer demanding a monsoon which has failed to come that year to pay back for his losses. That monsoon has been giving water for his crops for these many years. Did they pay Vijay for the profits they acquired? Now they are saying that they will not release the future movies of him. They said the same thing even after vettaikaran. But when sura came, what happened? In pondy there are only 5 screens and Sura got released in the 4 best screens. Why is this happening? I can’t understand this fact. Can any anti-Vijay fan give explanation for this? After Rajini, Vijay has the grandest opening that too after so many flops.

            All the more, he is such a nice person. So simple! Unlike all other actors who will be only inside caravan other than for the shots, Vijay loves to mingle with the people around the shooting spots when he is not in shoot.! Also his generous act of social service should be appreciated.

            This is his Birthday!

            I wish him a happy birthday and also hope this year turns out as a good year for him. He has that capacity to fight back all the barriers and regain his fame..! He will prove that he is the Next Super Star.

            I proudly say, “I am a fan of Vijay sir”